Bathing
- Try to maintain as much of your loved one’s old bathing routine as
possible. Plan the bath or shower for the time of day when the person is calmest.
- Bathing should be done the same way at the same time. Assemble everything you need
in advance and never leave the person alone.
- Always gauge the water temperature. People with dementia may suddenly lose the ability
to assess temperature.
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Dressing can be another source of confusion and stress. Learn strategies to make it easier.
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Bathing can be a major source of distress for both caregivers and their loved ones.
Your loved one may feel not only confused about what to do, but also humiliated
or embarrassed. Here are a few ideas to make bathing less of an ordeal.
If your loved one is shy or modest, make sure doors and curtains are closed. If
necessary, keep a towel draped over his or her front and wash underneath. Have towels
and a robe or clothes ready when done. Regardless of embarrassment, it is very important
to check that all areas are cleaned and rashes have not developed.
Keep an eye not only on the water temperature but also the room temperature and
the lighting. Older adults are more sensitive to temperatures. Install grab bars,
non-slip mats, shower seats, and/or hand-held showerheads to reduce the likelihood
of falls. For baths, use only a few inches of water and avoid bubble bath or oils
that make the tub slippery.
In order to encourage your loved one to take a bath, be calm and gentle but firm.
Provide guidance one step at a time. Avoid discussions about whether a bath is needed
by continuing to focus on the next step. For example, say “Here is your towel —
now unbutton your shirt.” If your loved one complains, “But I just showered,” answer,
“Now step into the tub.”
Next Step: Dressing, like bathing, can be a source of confusion
and frustration. A few simple tips can make dressing easier.
